To say that it is difficult for women to achieve great things is not really sexist in this day and age. This has to do with the education men and women receive from childhood. The education that men receive from childhood is that ordinary people have to be the head of a household and support their family. For those who are a little better, it’s time to stand out in various ways. The bigger the family, the higher the pursuit. Among these things, the word cruelty is not a description of a person's character, but an essential quality in the process of human growth. But if women have not experienced family shocks, there are really not many women who can be ruthless and cannot easily give up any relationship. Heroes are the norm in this world, and the word itself illustrates some problems. (There is no need to talk about those female gentlemen, they are great, but most of their greatness is standing on the shoulders of giants.) Listening to He Yuzhu's ruthless words, Lou Xiao'e couldn't help laughing and said: "Silly Zhu, are you scared?" He Yuzhu touched his nose. No one had called him the nickname Silly Zhu for decades.
He Yuzhu smiled bitterly and said: "I'm not afraid, I'm just annoyed by people like this. They use other people's emotions as weapons, as if they have no other choice." Lou Xiao'e was worthy of being someone who had "common experiences" with He Yuzhu, and she immediately understood the meaning of He Yuzhu's words. Lou Xiao'e is in a much better mood now, probably because she has been thinking about this in her heart, but she has been unable to make up her mind. And He Yuzhu's opinion is still more important to Lou Xiao'e. Lou Xiao'e nodded and said with a smile: "I will discuss it with my mother when I get home. I still can't do it, but I guess my mother is willing to do it." He Yuzhu also laughed at Lou Xiao'e: "You want to eat beef, but you are afraid of killing the cow and making it bloody." Lou Xiao'e stuck out her tongue at He Yuzhu, acting like a child. He Yuzhu told Lou Xiao'e to take his daughter to Hong Kong Island, and Lou Xiao'e asked: "Is Yu Li willing to give it up?" "So what if you can't bear it? We don't have many choices at Yuanyuan's age here. I don't want her to be unable to keep up with us when she is in her thirties or forties, and then she will blame us." He Yuzhu replied. He Yuanyuan In this era, in Sijiu City, whether you go to school or not, you have to get married. And marriage in this era is basically everything to women. Whether it is because of marriage and society being out of touch, or because of work or something that causes family unhappiness, this is not what He Yuzhu wants to see. Of course, more importantly, He Yuzhu is destined to make rapid progress after the reform. Regardless of whether He Yuzhu succeeds in the end, He Yuzhu will not live an ordinary life anyway. And with the current He family, He Yuanyuan's knowledge can only be seen in front of her eyes. If you continue to grow up in this kind of environment, you will definitely not be able to keep up with He Yuzhu’s pace in the future. Furthermore, He Yuzhu also had selfish motives. He Yuzhu said, "It's time for Yuanyuan to meet He Xiao and her two sisters." Hearing this, Lou Xiao'e rolled her eyes at He Yuzhu, but did not raise any objection. Their family's confusion was due to He Yuzhu's philandering and social reasons. It's hard to explain. But these have nothing to do with the next generation. Lou Xiao'e still has some ambition. Lou Xiao'e didn't tell He Yuzhu what they were doing in Sijiucheng.
The two of them spoke very restrainedly and basically didn't say anything related to official business. To put it a little too far is "dream". It's not that the couple is afraid of someone spying on them, but at this time, it's always good to be a little more careful. As for Lou Bancheng and the Lou family in Hong Kong, this is considered a family affair between the couple. Even if someone hears it, it doesn't matter. He Yuzhu has to go home after all. After returning home, Yu Li will eventually take care of her. Seeing Yu Lipi's smiling face, maybe after sending away the two children, he might eat He Yuzhu in one bite. He Yuzhu hurriedly said: "I have negotiated with Lou Xiao'e about sending Yuanyuan out. You can prepare well with the child these days. If you leave, Yuanyuan may not be able to come back in two or three years." When Yu Li heard this, she didn't bother to deal with He Yuzhu, and immediately panicked. Her eyes immediately turned red, but she forced herself to look at her daughter. He Yuanyuan also put down the bowl in her hand in confusion, looked at He Yuzhu, and then at Yu Li, "Wow~~··" and cried. He Yuanyuan suddenly threw herself into Yu Li's arms, which made He Yuzhu embarrassed again. Yu Li was the one who beat He Yuanyuan the most since childhood. Every time He Yuanyuan rushed into He Yuzhu's arms, but this time, it might have been too sudden. Or maybe He Yuanyuan felt that He Yuzhu had stopped kissing her and wanted to find warmth with her mother. Yu Li was also sobbing, but she still suppressed her sadness and comforted her daughter in He Yuanyuan's ear. The boss looked up at He Yuzhu and moved his mouth to say something. Looking at He Yuzhu's unkind expression, he consciously closed his mouth and said nothing. He Yuzhu said: "Dad, this is for your own good. You said you don't go out to see the world now, what can you do in the future? Just find someone to marry? If your husband treats you badly, dad can chop him alive. So, as long as you don’t do bad things when you go out. If you can learn, go to school. If you can't learn, it's good to see more about the outside world. " When He Yuzhu spoke, He Yuanyuan stopped crying and looked at He Yuzhu secretly. Seeing He Yuzhu's serious expression, there was no way he could change it. He Yuanyuan said softly: "I just can't bear to leave my mother, father, brother and grandfather." Well, this little guy is also a drama queen. Seeing that He Yuzhu did not force her to learn anything. I immediately couldn’t care less about being sad. The eldest son looked up at his sister, then at his parents, but still shut up and continued to eat. He didn't hear anything. He just said it incidentally in his sister's mouth. Once the words were settled, Yu Li no longer cared about He Yuzhu. They drove He Yuzhu to share a room with his son, and even refused to let him sleep in his daughter's single room, saying he was too dirty. Then she forced He Yuanyuan to sleep with her. It just means teaching my daughter some things she should pay attention to outside. He Yuzhu was lying on the bed, and the boss was sleeping on the opposite side. He Yuzhu asked: "Boss, what do you want to do in the future?"
He Aiguo said: "Let's cook!" He Yuzhu smiled and said: "I sent your sister out, but I didn't mention you and Aijun. Are you angry?" Although He Aiguo knew that He Yuzhu couldn't see him, he still shook his head and said, "I don't like walking around, I just like cooking." He Yuzhu was silent for a moment and said to his boss: "I told your mother that after a while, when the situation outside is better, let her take you to open a restaurant. When the time comes, let your grandpa help you, and your mother will help you run the business for a few years. You also need to learn how to run a business, how to purchase, and how to deal with people. How big this restaurant can be in the future will be how big your business will be. " (End of this chapter)